Attack!

I've been doing fairly well on this journey of learning to live without alcohol.

I've told two of my sisters. I've told one of my two close friends. And yesterday I sent an email to the second friend to tell her. I wasn't worried abut their reaction. They were all supportive.

Tomorrow will be 7 weeks without alcohol. One week ago, I had a terrible episode.

I was at a writer's conference. A Christian Writer's conference. I haven't mentioned up to now the fact that I'm a Christian. But I am. That probably made everything worse, because along with all the condemnation I had been feeling, the thought that I was disappointing the Lord, who gave everything for me, worsened the distress.

Anyway, I went to this conference. There were almost 700 writers there. About ten percent were published, and everyone else was, as we writers say, pre-published. I'd been looking forward to this conference for months. I was a finalist in the Historical category and there was to be an Awards dinner on Saturday night.

I didn't have a roommate at the conference so I had the hotel room to myself. The thought occurred to me  several times that I could drink and no one would have to know. Except me, of course. And the Lord.

But I pushed that thought away. And went about my business. On Thursday night I had a stronger temptation to have a drink. But I didn't.

And then, Friday night, while I was in the middle of a session with about 25 other writers, listening to a publishing house rep tell us what they were looking for, I began to have some terrible overwhelming thoughts.

 I'm never going to make it. Look at all these people here who want the same thing. It's impossible. I'm not good enough.


I realized I had been staring at this woman's face and not hearing a word she had said for the last 15 minutes. All I could think of was going to the bar and getting a drink. The compulsion was so strong I could barely think about anything else. All I wanted to do was curl up in my room alone and drink a bottle of wine.

Somehow I stumbled to the Prayer Room. This is a little meeting room with low lighting and chairs, and people volunteering their time. There was one woman there, and I blurted out my story to her, including the temptation to drink. She prayed over me while tears ran down my face. Then I went to my room and my husband called - all chipper, expecting a good report. Instead he got a miserable, crying wife who barely knew which end was up. He prayed for me, too.

Then I took a long shower and went to bed. The next morning I woke up feeling 100% better. In that instant I knew it had been a spiritual attack of Satan, who had come at me with both barrels. Somehow, instead of running to alcohol, I ran to the Lord. And I was OK. Thank you, dear Lord.

What I realized from this episode was how strong the compulsion was to relieve my stress and anxiety with a bottle of wine. Again, it confirmed to me the fact that alcohol had become a lot more than a nice way to relax in the evening.

I'm starting to wonder if I should possibly share these thoughts with others who might be struggling the way I was and have been.

I'm going to think a little more about that.